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Bold Men Workbook

Bold Men Workbook, Volume III

Redeemed & Sending (Weeks 34–52)

Who it is for
Christian men walking out of pornography and sexual sin, in a small accountability group with a leader.
Format
19 weeks. Each week: a teaching, seven daily devotionals, a memory verse, group discussion questions, a weekly check-in, and space for a leader’s notes.
Anchor scripture
2 Timothy 4:7
How to get it
Paperback. Ask at contact or through your pack leader.

The final nineteen weeks close out the year and turn the question around: you've walked this — who are you walking it out with next? Volume III covers what it looks like to actually trust a rebuilt life, what ongoing accountability looks like once the crisis has passed, and how to disciple another man through the same fourteen weeks you started with.

Same weekly structure throughout. Finishes the 52-week arc started in Volume I — best read as the closing volume of the three.

Contents

Arc VI — Redeemed Desire

  1. What Sex Is For (Genesis 2:24-25)
  2. Eyes of Honor (Job 31:1)
  3. Marriage as Covenant (Ephesians 5:25)
  4. True Intimacy with Your Wife (1 Corinthians 7:3-5)
  5. Singleness & Self-Control (1 Corinthians 7:7-9)
  6. Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal (Joel 2:25)
  7. Guarding the Garden (Proverbs 4:23)

Arc VII — The Disciplined Life

  1. Integrity When No One Is Watching (Psalm 101:2-3)
  2. Redeeming Your Time & Devices (Ephesians 5:15-16)
  3. The Body as Temple (1 Corinthians 6:19-20)
  4. Work as Worship (Colossians 3:23)
  5. Money & Contentment (1 Timothy 6:6-10)
  6. Anger & the Tongue (James 1:19-20)

Arc VIII — Free Men Free Men

  1. From Saved to Sent (Matthew 28:18-20)
  2. Leading Your Home (Joshua 24:15)
  3. Fathering the Next Generation (Deuteronomy 6:6-7)
  4. Becoming an Accountability Leader (2 Timothy 2:2)
  5. Your Story as a Weapon (Revelation 12:11)
  6. The Race Finished (2 Timothy 4:7–8)

From Week 34: What Sex Is For

“Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. And the man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed.” — Genesis 2:24–25 (ESV)

The teaching

For thirty-three weeks the work has been mostly subtraction. Cut the input. Starve the pathway. Flee the trigger. Say no, and say it again, ten thousand more times, until the no starts to hold. That work was necessary, and it is not over. But if no is the only word you ever learn, you will end up a sober man who secretly believes God is against desire, that the holiest version of you would be a man with no wants at all, a stone with a Bible in its hand. That is not the gospel, and it is not what God made you for.

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An excerpt. The full text is in the paperback.

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