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title: "Speaking & engagements"
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updated: 2026-08-05T02:48:59.821668+00:00
publisher: "B.O.L.D. (Brothers Overcoming Lustful Desires)"
organization: "B.O.L.D. (Brothers Overcoming Lustful Desires)"
organizationUrl: https://www.boldmen.org/
contactEmail: bryan@boldmen.org
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# Speaking & engagements

## Let us help tear down that wall of porn that plagues so many churches.

![Bryan speaking at a men's conference](/images/marketing/speaking-1.png)

Are you having a **men's conference, men's breakfast, marriage retreat, or staff training**? Bryan and a team leader will come to you and address the taboo topic of porn addiction head-on. Bryan is open about his past addictions and is passionate about helping men to freedom through Jesus Christ.

**Amber is available for speaking engagements as well.** She has a powerful testimony about the strength God gives during the refiner's fire. When the last affair was exposed, she didn't go to prescription drugs or alcohol for pain relief — she went directly to the healing source: Jesus Christ.

If you're hosting a **marriage conference**, Amber and Bryan will come and speak together about how God brings beauty from ashes — how to conquer the sex sin and have a healthy relationship that actually communicates.

![Bryan and Amber speaking together](/images/marketing/speaking-2.png)

## "One more man"

> *"For where two or three are gathered together in My name, I am there in the midst of them."* — Matthew 18:20

**Group size doesn't matter.** It can be from 2 to 2000.

Our motto is **"one more man"** because if we can help one man, we can help that one family.

Early on, Bryan watched the movie *Hacksaw Ridge*. There's a scene where Desmond Doss is carrying out a wounded soldier and praying, *"Lord, help me get one more."* That single prayer became the heartbeat of this ministry.

This is the heart of B.O.L.D. — to help one more man out of the battle of porn addiction, and one more woman healed from pain. **We will do what it takes to help you.**

## What you can expect at an engagement

- **45–75 minutes** of teaching, depending on your slot.
- A **call to action** — every man in the room gets a clear next step (it usually involves taking out his phone and texting one number, before he can talk himself out of it).
- **Q&A** — Bryan will not duck a single question. Wives and women in attendance will not be patronized.
- **Resource handout** — written follow-up so what was said in the room doesn't evaporate on the drive home.
- **Optional follow-up small group setup** at your church, if you want to plant a B.O.L.D. group on your own campus.

## Past engagements include

Men's conferences, marriage retreats, church staff trainings, recovery summits, military chaplain meetings, and Sunday morning services. We'll travel anywhere there is one more man waiting.

## Book us

Text Bryan at **(214) 405-7328** or email **bryan@boldmen.org**. Include:

- Date(s) you're considering
- Approximate group size
- Topic emphasis (men only, marriage, recovery, training your leaders, etc.)
- Travel logistics (city, what's covered)

We try to respond within 48 hours. If your event is more than 90 days out, we will almost always say yes.

[Talk to us →](/contact)

Source: https://www.boldmen.org/speaking